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友友推荐:适合各类孩子的家长会提问宝典

发布时间:11/11/2018 00:00:00

作者:Peggy Gisler, Ed.S. and Marge Eberts, Ed.S.

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下一周是很多学校的Teacher-Parent Interview的时期。老师和家长一对一的会谈平均20分钟,如何利用好这样短暂的时间和老师进行充分的交流:了解孩子在学校的状况、让老师了解孩子在家的情况便于老师调整对孩子的教育计划和方法,了解老师对家长的要求...这对母语是英语的家长们都是一个挑战。友友精选这篇文章,教您在不同的情形下应该注意问什么样的问题、怎样问,可以让您从这20分钟里获得最多的资讯。

 

六种不同的情况,看看你的孩子是哪种?

 

1. My child and the teacher don't get along. 我孩子跟老师关系处得不好。
 

2. The teacher and I don't get along. 我和孩子老师的关系处得不好。
 

3. My child is struggling academically. 我孩子学习比较吃力。
 

4. My child is not challenged. 学校的内容对我孩子太简单。
 

5. My child is having a tough time socially. 我孩子在社交方面有困难。
 

6. My child is doing well. What is there to talk about? 我孩子哪方面都不错,我该和老师说什么?

 

 

1. My child and the teacher don't get along. 我孩子跟老师关系处得不好。

Questions you should ask:
 

1.Is my child behaving appropriately in the classroom?
 

2.Are you aware that my child is finding it difficult to work with you?
 

3.What suggestions do you have about ways my child could improve his relationship with you?
 

4.Do you have any ideas about how you might get along better with my child?
 

5.Do you feel that a transfer to another class would be in the best interest of my child?

 

贴心提示:
1.带着合作的态度去解决问题。千万不要争执。
2.把孩子反映的在学校里正面和负面(让他/她感到挫折)的经历列下来,带到会上和老师分享。
3.记住你从孩子那里听到的描述只是事情的一面,他有没有可能夸张了某些事实?
4.认真地聆听孩子对学校各种事情的评价,帮助他寻找解决问题的方法。
5.抽时间亲自到学校待一段时间,从你的角度分析很多孩子反映的问题。

 


2. The teacher and I don't get along. 我和孩子老师的关系处得不好。

Questions you should ask:
 

1.What do you think each of us can do so we will be able to work together smoothly this year?
 

2.Can we avoid involving my child in our differences?
 

3.Can we find some areas of agreement on how to help my child succeed in school?
 

4.Would you please give me your views on our areas of disagreement?
 

5.May I tell you why I don't agree with your views on ____?

 

贴心提示:
1.管住你的嘴,努力在这20分钟时间内和老师和平相处。和老师任何的对立对你孩子的情况都没有帮助。
2.如果是你在某方面得罪了老师,请衷心的向老师道歉。
3.抱着坦诚开放的态度,接受你和老师的分歧i,静下心来听听她的观点。
4.即便你觉得很困难,也要费心找到老师的一些优点,并衷心感谢她在这方面做出的努力。让对方软化下来放弃防御,是解决问题的起点。
5.如果你和老师的关系真的十分僵化,而转班转学又不是可以实现的途径时,可以寻求校长、助理校长和其他老师作为调解。

 

 

3. My child is struggling academically. 我孩子学习比较吃力。

Questions you should ask:
 

1.What is my child's ability level?
 

2.What exactly do you feel is the problem or problems that are causing my child to struggle in school this year?
 

3.What special help can the school offer my child to get him or her on track academically as quickly as possible?
 

4.Would it be appropriate to test my child for a learning disability?
 

5.How can I help my child do better in school?

 

贴心提示:
 

1.让孩子回家立刻开始做作业。并按照他的需要给与协助。
2.对学业上吃力的孩子,家长需要付出额外的精力。检查他每天的作业,帮助他改正做错的地方。
3.教孩子学习技巧,比如认真读题等等。
4.多从老师那里获得孩子在学校各科的成绩表现。
5.如果孩子在这方面有特殊需求,了解学校局对这样的学生有什么帮助措施。

 

4. My child is not challenged. 学校的内容对我孩子太简单。

Questions you should ask:
 

1.How is my child doing academically in your class?
 

2.Do you feel my child is breezing through class assignments with little or no effort?
 

3.Could you make class assignments that are more challenging for my child?
 

4.Does the school have a formal program for gifted and talented children? Should my child be tested for it?
 

5.What can I do at home to enhance my child's educational experience?

 

贴心提示:
1.和老师商量可否让孩子花较少的时间在他已经掌握的科目上,而给他更多机会尝试提高和扩展的学习内容。
2.更多情况下,家长需要自己为孩子安排更多和更有挑战性的课外活动和学习。
3.下面这个网站可以教你如何给天才的孩子找挑战。www.nagc.org
4.家长一定要多给孩子开发各类兴趣班。博物馆、科技馆、各类教育机构都提供这样的项目。
5.加入天才儿童家长的协会或者团体,寻求意见和帮助。

 

 

5. My child is having a tough time socially. 我孩子在社交方面有困难。

Questions you should ask:
 

1.Does my child have any friends at school?
 

2.Why do you feel my child is having problems socializing with other children?
 

3.Is there anything you can do in the classroom to help my child feel more comfortable around her peers?
 

4.Do you have any suggestions about what I could do at home to help my child get along better with her classmates?
 

5.Would it be a good idea for my child to talk to the school counselor or psychologist about ways to improve his socialization skills?

 

贴心提示:
1.把家里搞得讨小朋友/大朋友喜欢。
2.邀请孩子的同学到家里来玩。
3.送孩子去各类兴趣班,拓广他的爱好,也给他机会交新朋友。
4.让孩子看到你如何交朋友、处理社交,让他有学习的榜样。
5.在学校里有朋友的孩子在各方面的表现都会优于没有朋友的小孩。不过良好的家庭关系也能弥补这方面的不足。

 


6. My child is doing well. What is there to talk about? 我孩子哪方面都不错,我该和老师说什么?

 

Questions you should ask:
 

1.What grade level is my child performing on in reading, math, social studies, and science?
 

2.How is my child doing in relation to the rest of the class? (Is my child performing in the top 25 percent? Top 10 percent?)
 

3.What do you see as my child's strengths and weaknesses?
 

4.Could you tell me about my child's work ethic, relations with other children, behavior in class, and attitude toward learning?
 

5.Can you tell me what academic topics and skills will be emphasized this year in your classroom?

 

贴心提示:
1.告诉老师一些他以前不知道的关于你孩子的信息,让她对你的孩子有更加全面的了解。
2.对孩子愉快的学校经历向老师表示感谢。
3.询问老师你是否可以在某方面帮到孩子的班级。
4.每天同孩子谈心,了解学校发生的事情。记住表扬他的每一个努力和进步。
5.保持你到现在为止的做法,让孩子持续良好的学校生活。


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